I couldn’t believe my eyes. There it was. The popular expression that I was determined to eliminate from my children’s vocabulary was printed in big bold letters across the front of my friend’s t-shirt.
 I couldn’t ever imagine her using that exclamation, much less wearing it on her clothing. As I tried to process this troubling sight, I looked up to see her husband. He was wearing a matching shirt. Something was definitely wrong here. 
Imagine my relief when my friend turned around and walked away from me. The back of her shirt explained it all: